Sarah Stall '97: A Leader Shaped by Community

For Sarah Stall, Our Lady of the Elms School was never just a place she attended.

It was a place that knew her.
A place that challenged her.
A place that shaped who she would become.

From the moment she entered as a Middle School student, she became part of a community built on high expectations, steady support, and a shared belief in the potential of young women.

Over eight formative years, the Elms gave her more than an academic foundation. It gave her confidence, a sense of purpose, and the beginning of her leadership journey.

Growing Up at the Elms

Sarah’s experience at Our Lady of the Elms School was defined by continuity.

She grew up in the same community from Middle School through High School, forming strong relationships with classmates and teachers who came to know her well. That consistency created something powerful: an environment where she felt both supported and challenged every day.

There was structure. There were expectations.

But there was also encouragement.

Students were not just guided. They were known. And because they were known, they were pushed to become more.

That is where leadership begins.

Finding Her Voice

Throughout her time at the Elms, Sarah embraced the opportunities around her.

She became involved in student life, participating in the Latin Club and Music Club, and eventually stepping into one of her most formative roles as Editor-in-Chief of The Elm Leaf.

In that role, she learned how to lead.

Not just by directing others, but by listening, collaborating, and bringing ideas together. She learned how to balance responsibility with creativity and how to guide a team toward a shared goal.

It was in these moments that her voice became stronger.

And her confidence grew.

The Power of Mentorship

At the heart of Sarah’s experience were the relationships she built with her teachers.

They did more than teach. They invested.

They offered guidance when it mattered most, encouragement when it was needed, and belief even in moments of uncertainty. That kind of mentorship shaped how Sarah understood learning, not as something transactional, but as something deeply personal.

It also shaped how she would later lead.

Because when you have been supported in that way, you learn to do the same for others.

A Community That Lasts

Beyond academics and leadership opportunities, the Elms gave Sarah something just as lasting: connection.

Through shared traditions, daily interactions, and extracurricular involvement, she experienced a sense of belonging that is increasingly rare. Friendships formed during those years have remained a steady part of her life, grounded in shared experiences and mutual support.

Leadership, she learned, is not developed alone.

It is built in a community.

A Full Circle Moment

After graduation, Sarah carried the values of the Elms with her.

Over time, those values led her back to education, not as a student, but as a teacher. Inspired by the mentors who shaped her, she chose to invest in the next generation, offering the same guidance, encouragement, and care that once made such an impact on her.

It is a full-circle moment.

One that reflects the lasting influence of an Elm’s education.

Looking Back, Moving Forward

Today, Sarah speaks with deep appreciation about Our Lady of the Elms School.

She encourages current students to take full advantage of the opportunities before them. To engage. To build relationships. To be present in the experience.

Because the lessons learned at the Elms do not end at graduation.

They continue to shape how students lead, build relationships, and move through the world.

Developing Women Leaders

Sarah’s story is not defined by a single achievement.

It is defined by growth over time.

By confidence built through experience.
By leadership developed through opportunity.
By relationships that continue to shape her life.

At Our Lady of the Elms School, this is the work happening every day.

Students are not simply preparing for what comes next.

They are developing into women leaders, grounded in confidence, community, and purpose.

Amber Hejl